Despina
Plankias Messinesi
Still in Vogue
Messinesi
in Paris in 1947 (photo by John Rawlings);
inset, Messinesi today. |
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day Despina Plakias Messinesi 29 was supposed to start her $25-a-week
job at Vogue in New York, she begged off. Im taking a
donkey to the Ritz for breakfast, she explained, and so she
was.
The year was 1941, and Messinesi had fled war-darkened Athens for
her native United States, where she had thrown herself into Greek
war relief. On this occasion, to call attention to the relief effort,
she had managed to locate several donkeys to drape with baskets of
flowers and parade through the streets. When she arrived at Vogue
the next day, she was surprised that everybody already seemed to know
her. They showed her why: a half-page photo in the morning paper of
Messinesi hugging a donkey.
Depy Messinesi went on to become a legendary figure
at Vogue, working there into her 80s.
Born in Brookline, Mass., to Greek immigrant parents, she had gone
to Greece at 3, returned at 5, and then moved to Paris. When she was
11, her father drowned.
Returning to Brookline, the family struggled to make ends meet. As
an adolescent, Messinesi taught French for $2 an hour. Her mother
took in a boarder, a dance instructor who taught at Abbot. Encouraged
by that teacher, Messinesi entered Abbot as a scholarship student,
graduating three years later with what she calls the only education
Ive ever had.
Abbot steadied her compass in an uncertain world. It kept me
stable, she says, and I am grateful. She particularly
remembers Miss BaileyPrincipal Bertha Baileyas
a grand woman who spoke softly and managed to both inspire
and comfort.
Messinesi gave up dreams of college to nurse her mother,
severely injured in a car crash. Later, visiting her grandmother
in Greece, she met the man she would marry, and did so, at 20, in
1931. Her husband, Milto, was in the import-export business, and they
lived in Athens.
The 30s were a happy time for us, she recalls. As a young
society matron she hobnobbed with the rich and powerful. But the German
invasion ended it all, and the war would doom her marriage. She soon
found herself alone and practically penniless in New York. By the
time she went looking for work at Vogue her larder was down to coffee
and dry toast.
But she landed on her feet. She had a gift for writing. She was observant
and adventurous. Fluent in English, Greek, French and German, she
moved easily in society and had a wide circle of prominent friends.
At Vogue, where she worked for 52 years, she served as a fashion editor
and as head of the magazines Paris office in the years following
World War II, when designers like Christian Dior and Elsa Schiaparelli
were transforming the fashion world. Messinesi was a friend of them
all. After her Paris assignment, she began circling the world as Vogues
travel editor. As Americans started to take to the skies, Messinesi
went ahead, sending back the flavor of far-flung places, advice on
things to see, where to stay and what to eat, and travel tips laced
with humor and good sense.
She cites curiosity as the greatest asset in furthering
her careerthat and the fact that, when it came to assignments,
she always said yes.
Today, at 89, she divides her time between her New York apartment
and a home upstate. She indulges herself by procrastinating
and doing what she likes.
All your life youve been giving, she explains. Now
its time to give to yourself. Her dark eyes glow. Ive
had a wonderful life. Thats all I can tell you.
Deborah
Fitts 63
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